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Is flashing your engage ring to Bae the solution, ladies?

Ring Moves

I met this beautiful young lady today,  she was exhuming the confidence of one of those ‘Girl Power’ females . But the moment we both  sighted the glass that revealed series of  well arranged engagement rings, the seemingly confident lady melted into the ‘Bae and Boo’ stories.

Ring Moves
Ring Moves💍💎

Being a talkative myself, I was eager to listen and respond to a Bae Boo talk any day all day. 

She talked about friends who automatically become Obnoxious to their childhood friends after they getting married. How girls render their friends penniless after the wedding. And how their current Bae is not making any move to make their love official.

Ring Moves
Ring Moves💍💎

From what she explained bitterly, I had no choice than to consider myself a lucky one, to have friends still remain good friends with me after getting married. I only just learnt that some ladies go as far as verbally insulting their friends to the faces just because they are single.

This is the height of ignorance and stupidity. After marriage, most ladies find out that it isn’t as rosy as as they have always pictured, what then? You try to mend broken bridges and try to say sorry for they hurtful things you said and meant ?

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Ring Moves💍💎

Marriage might be a new life journey , mentally, physically, emotional to you and your husband. But you can find yourself being bored , lonely and needing the friends you never thought you would be needing after marriage. Marriage is a box of present they say, you get what you opened up. And most times, it is not what we have always wanted. Who then do you confined in, when things go South In your relationship? Who do you tell when your life is crumbling?

Ladies, most of our life problems will end when we realize that your fellow women is not always the problem. Women uplifting each other is not and will never be a  bad idea.  Life doesn’t always go as planned, so be mindful when you try to play God, by talking down on the people who have known and loved you the longest, thinking you have assumed a position they haven’t. It can only take a second for change to occur.

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Ring Moves💍💎

           Know your own situation before doing what others are doing                 

People who see others on social media proposing to their boyfriends and getting married, will want to try it, and when it doesn’t go down as the have hoped, they feel depressed.

— We Have seen guys who wanted to more than anything get married to the love of their life, but lack the money to do so. In that case, when Bae is not an egoistic Boo, he will say ‘YES’ to Bae, when she makes the move to ask him out.This is considered the lucky case. But in another case,

— when a guy is not ready to settle down In any time soon for some reasons, and you being the girl, is very ready, because as a lady, your child bearing hips have given you signs to indicating its readiness through stretch marks to bear an offspring. You go ahead and plan to surprise Bae by proposing to him, and then  he says ‘NO’, then that is nobody’s fault. Don’t blame yourself for it and don’t blame Bae for it. It is not the unlucky case.  Just because you are ready doesn’t mean he is, and it is not your fault that you are ready, it is just that you and him don’t have the same mind set, which is very natural. So when people talk about flashing ring in Bae’s face, they have to know their own case. Don’t hollow the crowd, everyone is different.

know your own case.

Ring Moves
Ring Moves💍💎

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ObyOrijiworkout: Literally working my Butt Off while being fit..

Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness

For We Nigerians, the struggle of trying to balance a working life and a working out life, is always a challenge task especially to an employer in Nigeria.  We are quick to dislike the hard part of life, or the means of achieving a certain goal,while making it easy for us to always picture the happy part of life. Nigerians have over the years allowed some religious leaders tell them that “when they are not living a life of abundance and wealth, then it is because they are living a life of sin” According to them,  sinners don’t live a life of insufficiency. *Stop already*  

Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness

We are humans. And as humans, we will see the good and bad side of life. Stop believing that a Christian will only see the good. That is no true. The bad experiences are made lighter for us as Christians when we believe in Christ. That doesn’t mean the knowledge of Christ eliminates it. So, always have a plan for everything not just the good part of life, even in the work out session.

Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness

For example, when Nigerian people are told to find time to workout while they spend their  whole life trying to make a living, they are always very quick to tell you that they are not robots, saying there is no way they  can find time to work out amongst their whole responsible of work and family, not knowing that the very moment you start to work out, you automatically get yourself an extra strength to go about carrying out your tasks at work and home.

Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness

They are quick to yell “It is impossible“. But if in a case where your body breaks down during work, you see that this people immediately find themselves some time to go to all their doctor’s appointments, all the required tests, and eventually all the bed rests and admissions in the hospital.

why are you waiting for it to get to that state before you actually take a decision to pay attention to yourself? When the doctor himself tells you that your situation has gotten to an  extent where your life depends on you exercising, and losing some weight.

Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness
Oby Oriji fitness

To Practise what I preach,  I am now going to put myself to the test of starting my work while I am expected to resume my Job before 9am.

And Before 8am, I have designed and planned myself to have my prayer, have my 30 minutes jogging, have my 45 minutes cardio, and then a quick warm bath, and a makeup, (no breakfast ) and then leave for work by exactly 8am.

This 2018, I don’t want to preach what is hard to practice, so I will put myself to test before asking others to do it.

I will keep you guys updated in this case, obviously it will require discipline and dedication. And those are things that I have.

#Obyorijifitness

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Health

Looking to have your kid delivered in the U.S or Canada ?

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Follow @aspombirthservices in Instagram for affordable delivery in USA for a price  as low as $4000. Bills are for NORMAL BIRTH and they include doctor, hospital and Pediatrician fees only. (bills are paid directly to the hospital) as well.

This means that births with some sort of extra attention, will require an additional billing from you. Please take note.

Make sure you find out all you need to, before making payments, as there is a no refund policy. Ask all and every question you have to ask, and make sure you get an answer for it all.

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ObyOrijifood: The Incredible Okra Soup.

Okra Soup

Thinking of Making the incredible Okra soup? This was how I did mine. Although  It is Paramount to state that I am not particularly a fan of anything okra, it is only sensible that I learn to make it. You never know when okra soup will be needed to save a life.

ingredients

okra

uziza leaves

pomo

Calamari

cray fish

crabs

pepper

shrimps

seasoning cube

stock fish

dry fish

palmoil

white or red meat

salt

onions.

Okra Soup
Okra Soup

 

 

 

 

 

Preparation

— Heat palm oil in a dry clean pot, when hot enough, add some diced onions to the hot oil, causing it to simmer.

… In a separate pot,  Boil the well seasoned beef, adding seasoning cube, onions, salt to taste, and pepper to drive someone crazy, leaving them to cook for thirty minutes.

… Pour your diced okra into the pot, and stir for thirty minutes.

… Pour in your meat stock(the water gotten from boiled meat), allow to boil, and add your shrimps, crab, meat, calamari into the pot.

…. Add your sliced Uziza leaf, and put off the gas .

Eat with swallow of your choice.

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