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Life hacks: How to fill a Cup in the dark without spilling its content.

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The act of filling your cup with a liquid in the dark, especially water, has always been a challenge that has not gotten the right amount of attention that it deserves. Expecting that your cup will take more time than it requires to be filled  with water, is always a shocking myth, when you realise that the cup is filled to its brim, and is not spilling, giving you the mopping or cleaning  job, which wasn’t part of your initial plan.

It might be funny to have this article written, but it is in fact relevant to write this. Now my tactics, can only be applied if you are the one who is to consume the content of the cup.

As a blogger, I am always awake till late night, and since I hate to draw attention to myself,and even as a frugal, and bill sensitive lady, I hardly ever waste my electrical power by leaving the light on. So I rely on the TV and it light, to keep me awake, entertained, and bright. So I have had a first hand experience of trying to fill my cups with water (I drink a lot of water) from the dispenser in the middle of the night, even till about 2:00am. So, what I do to prevent the water from over flowing and spilling all over the ground, which will require me mopping it out, and wasting time on it, instead of working.

I simply stick my index finger into the cup, waiting to feel a cold sensation on my finger while the cup is being filled with water, to prevent it from getting to the brim and spilling.  Unless your hands have been recently washed, keeping them clean, then you can really do that to someone else’s cup of liquid. You can have a light, to watch the water fill the cup. But this is for my follow frugal humans. So when next you are trying to have a quick drink, stick that finger into the cup and prevent the liquid from wasting. You are welcome.

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Reason not to blame your parents when they advise you to stay back in an abusive marriage.

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We have too many people going about their normal day to day activities, we see them in our daily lives these days, without a clue what they go through, until they open their mouth. But the reality of their lives is that they  are surprisingly remaining in an abusive marriage for the sake of what their friends, parents, and society will think about them, if they leave it. A lot of spouses will rather put their feeling and physical and mental well being behind them, because  they Want to please the people they know and don’t know, just to avoiding giving people the chance to talk about them and their marriages. We have had women who hide their husband’s infidelity,abuse, sexually transmitted diseases, for the sake of putting out a good image to their family and friends, and swallow their dirty linen. Some husbands have had to put up with their wives’ cheating ways, marine spirit issues, and immoral life for the sake of their kids and family.

When married kids tell their parents about the happenings in their marriages these days, the first thing that goes through their mind, is the right way to hide the issue as much as possible from the society and neighbours, so they don’t become a topic for mockery and ridiculing for the world. Parents want the world to see that their kids are doing well in their various lives choices,  so when they want to get a divorce from their partners or even a separation, the parents are quick to discourage them from doing that, even after they tell them what they go through in the behind closed doors,  physically mentally, health and even finance.

In our generation today, we have been fortunate enough to be given the chance to leave a marriage for our own good, with the support of family, friends,society and government, if that will guarantee their safety. Women are made to understand that they can have a life without a husband in it these days. Women these days are also made to understand their powers and abilities in the society, apart from being a Mrs, bearing and raising kids. Their powers are even stronger than that of the men, only when they belief in themselves.  Now this is the strength that mothers of the other generations, didn’t have. Their lives revolved around their husbands and kids. The strong ones extended it the markets and farms, and then their kitchen.

The reason for this reaction from parents from other generations, is the fact that they where made to always  work towards pleasing the society and making themselves look good in the eyes of the world. They told them that a good wife, is the one who can act as a bond, holding all her family problems, and preventing them from reaching the ears of the world, while they died in silence. This is what they know. They don’t know any better. The evil in the world today, is so intense that some women still get haunted down and killed when they succeed in leaving a toxic man.

So when next you take your marital problems to your parents or elderly relatives, and they tell you to hide it from the world, and remain in it, don’t blame them for it, because this is what they know. You know better, and you are the first hand recipient of the marital issues. You are the one to decide on your own, what is best for you and your life. Don’t wait for people to decide what’s best for your life. Make your own choices.

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Racism: Nigerian Singer Tekno, rejects a Nigerian Vixen for being dark skinned.

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The issue of racism is something that has eaten deep into the skin of the Blacks even as Mich as it has eaten deep into the skin of the white. We black are quick to cry wolf, but we are the biggest racist to our own selves.

The whites, are the most reminded, the most peeped people against racism, because they are on the top of the food chain. While everyone is sensitive to the Caucasians being racist, we blacks do it to our own selves on a daily basis, and we over look it.

The fact that jobs are first offered to the light skinned people, before the blacks. But how is it that you automatically assume that light skinned person will do more work, will be more presentable, will be better to look at, will be more appealing, and will be more sincere than their dark counterpart.

This guy called Tekno, according to the a accusation by this Vixen,model,actress girl, rejected the dark skinned model for an up close shot for his video, because she was dark skinned. He wants to show a butt shot of a young light skinned lady. The dark model, knowing her self worth, and getting worked up after waking up so early in the morning to meet up with the shoot, walked out on the said Tekno.

Do not encourage anyone to use you as a rag, but in Nigeria where there are no jobs, trying to fight an issue like this by walking out on the job, is hard, because people need to survive. Please stop treating this women like this.

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Wealthy widow admits to having Over 100 Affairs’ Including Married Men.

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A wealthy widow, who has claimed to have had affairs with more than 100 men, has revealed she is splitting her time with three married suitors in the lead up to Valentine’s Day – but will be spending February 14 alone. Gweneth Lee, 47, says she is having flings with an international jeweller, a high-flying stockbroker and a powerful banker at the same time – and claims unfaithful husbands spend more on valentines gifts for their mistress than they do their spouses.

The former model will spend different nights with all three over the next two weeks in the build-up to the most romantic day of the year. But she will be all alone on February 14th because her three lovers will be with their wives.

Business consultant Ms Lee of Chelsea, West London, said: ” Valentine’s is the best time of year to be a mistress because you are lavished with sex and presents. “Married men may make a fuss of their wives on February 14th but they spend a lot more money on their mistresses. “In my experience the gift to the mistress tends to cost double whatever they give to the wife, and it is far sexier. “I’ve been a wife on Valentine’s Day, when I was married to my late oil executive husband, and all I can say is that being a mistress is a lot more fun.” All three of Ms Lee’s lovers are aware that she is seeing them on a ‘non-exclusive’ basis and that they will be sharing her with other married men in the run-up to Valentine’s.

Ms Lee added; ””The sad truth is that monogamy is unnatural. Who decided that it was good idea to commit to one person in your 20s or 30s and then stay with them for the next 50 years? Where is the fun in that? Inevitably the sex is going to go stale.
She said.

Via: chinnysblog

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Horror: American Dad chains and rapes twin daughters, and impregnating one of them.

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A disturbing tale of a Minneapolis man who has been accused of keeping his two adult twin daughters with mental disabilities chained in a house of horrors,where he beat them with bats and paddles, and raped one of them, leaving her pregnant, has got internet users talking.

Jerry Lee Curry, 51, is facing 10 felony charges, including first-degree criminal sexual conduct, first-degree assault, criminal abuse of a vulnerable adult and child endangerment.

As of Thursday, Curry was in custody, according to Hennepin County Jail records. His bail was set at $750,000. Police began investigating Curry last spring after one of his 20-year-old twin daughters ran away.

An medical report revealed she had suffered injuries consistent with abuse. Human services then removed the other 20-year-old daughter from Curry’s south Minneapolis home, as well as a 10-year-old sibling. .

Police say that both the adult daughters are vulnerable individuals, which psychologists deemed to be incapable of independent living. The twins told shelter officials that Curry beat them with paddles and bats and kept their hands and feet bound in chains to his bedroom door.

They reported that they were kept in chains for days at a time, with one of the daughters adding that the bondage began when she became sexually active at 15.

The daughter who ran away had lost sight in one eye and suffered a slightly detached ear after she said Curry stomped on her head. The other daughter gave birth to a child, and investigators said the DNA results pointed to Curry being the father. If convicted of the charges, Curry faces several decades in prison.

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Akwa Ibom Catholic priest sets to marry months after resigning.

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This happens to be one of the plans of the pope, to allow priest get married, to avoid cases that are not pleasant. Just like the case of a former Akwa-Ibom State based Catholic priest, Rev. Patrick Henry Edet, who has fixed March 17, 2018 as the day to tie the knot with his fiancée who he will unveil next week, NewTelegraph reports.

Edet made the disclosure on Tuesday during his Grace Family service. While announcing his resignation on the 31st of July, 2017, he had said “the resignation marked the beginning of ‘freedom’ for his spirit and soul. He Said:

From today henceforth, I cease to be a Catholic priest, in my spirit and in my soul. I forgive those who will criticise me, I live for God. I seek freedom for my soul. As I leave, I leave smiling. I am so happy that I am free” .

He added that there was no need for him to continue with the Catholic Church because peace deserted him while he was there. He said after 11 long years, he strongly felt the need to leave, because he was feeling boxed in and it was affecting his personal relationship with God.

Now I appreciate if he wants to openly  get married and have a family of his own, Unlike those other who men who would rather hide and commit evil. He can serve God and have a family, I just don’t want him calling out the Church.

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Man goes on a date with a naked lady, without noticing.

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How much happenings do you notice around you on a daily basis? Not so much in the case of this young man who went on a date with a model, Joy Jewell, who showed up for a Tinder date at the mall wearing nothing but body paint,to see how her potential blind date would react to her make belief outfit. Suspected that the date tried to be respectful and only stare at her face, like he was expected to.

According to Instablog, Jewell teamed up with body painter, Jen Seidel. When they first met, Joy was wearing a big coat, which he helped her remove, revealing her clothe less body, before they had ordered their coffees. He then told her he liked her outfit. After finishing their coffees the pair went for a walk around the mall but the game was almost up when a group of girls spotted the paint and the cameraman and asked for selfies.

It was only when they’re on their way to the car park at the end of the date and walked into the rain that Joy was forced to admit she’s wearing nothing but paint to avoid an awkward reveal.

📷:Instablog

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Israel begins arrest and deportation of African immigrants.

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Following its clear dislike for blacks, after prime openly wrote a derogatory letter to  blacks last week, Israel commenced its earlier stated plan to  arrest and expel African migrants last week, after it detained 7 Eritrea citizens who refused to be deported to Rwanda.

Out of desperation to remain in the Country, the marked out Africans turn to protest, looking to change the mindset of the Israeli Authority. The inmates at the Holot prison in the Negev desert, initially embarked on hunger strike, before the African migrants took to the streets with white washed faces, with placards that insinuated that they were about to be deported because they were blacks, reminding them that black lives mattered.

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Israel has concluded its plans, to rid it streets of thousands of Africans who are dominated by Migrants from Sudan and Eritrea. But unlike other Countries, the Israeli government had a good plan for the migrants, as he proposed giving each one of them $3,500 with the option to go back to a third world Country, or just go back to their home land.

With the protest by the migrants not yielding anything decision, they Israeli government has therefore given them an ultimatum to leave the Country by the end of March, or face an indefinite incarceration.
I think this government is even more considerate, than most of the government of the home Countries of these migrants.

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In my opinion, they better take that money and leave. I think no one owes anyone anything, and if this one is kind enough to hand them some money, then that is really considerate of them. If a Country is asking you to leave, why protest? This is a Country that is coming out to openly say how they feel about your stay. They must don’t want it, and they have asked you to leave their Country. So In this case, I am not so sure about protest.

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Six agencies working to recover JAMB’s stolen money– Registrar

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Following the snake swallow tale by the Benue state Jamb staff, Prof. Ishaq Oloyede the Registrar of the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board, has come out to update Nigerians, saying that no fewer than six federal agencies are helping the examination body to recover its money allegedly stolen by some of its officials.

The agencies, according to Oloyede, are the police, the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, the Department of State Services, the National Information Technology Development Agency and the Nigerian Communications Commission.

Recall that JAMB suspended the famous snake tale teller mistress Philomina Chieshe, two weeks ago on account of suspected theft of N36m, which she claimed had been swallowed by a snake from the vault, at the board’s office in Makurdi, Benue State.

Later that week, the board said it was investigating fresh cases of fraud totalling N83m uncovered in its state offices in Kano, Edo, Kogi, Gombe and Plateau.

The JAMB registrar however assured Nigerians that all the stolen funds would be recovered and paid to the purse of the Federal Government in due time.

He said, “We have received cooperation from other agencies in monitoring the fraud and other sharp practices.  We would not have had the means to detect some of the things we are detecting if not for the cooperation of these agencies “

He explained that his management gave those who stole money an opportunity to pay back what they took into JAMB accounts when it was discovered that a lot of the workers could not give proper records of transactions they carried out on behalf of the agency.

Oloyede said, “We had no problem with all the officers who paid back what they had with them and they remained on their jobs. We (however) handed over those who wanted to be clever and felt they had stolen the money and were not ready to refund anything to the security agencies.

“Having handed them over (for prosecution), it has left my purview. What remains is for them to pay back the money. They had misused the privilege of payment without prosecution in the first place”

The JAMB registrar could not confirm the number of workers currently being investigated or the amount they allegedly stole because the probe is still ongoing.

“I believe that the affected officers, out of mistake, must have done what they did before 2016. If anyone is caught now, we will be as ruthless as possible. There will be no option of payback and sin anymore,” he added.

Oloyede said the essence of the mock examination, billed to start on Monday, was to enable JAMB to identify areas that were not perfect and correct the errors.

He stated, “We also want to seize the opportunity to expose those who are afraid of computers to the use of technology. We want them to know that the computer-based test is the best way”

Source: PunchNews

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Tragedy: Doctors lose one of a conjoined twins during separated in Bauchi State.

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Tragedy struck the operating room as a team of Doctors made to separate a set of conjoined twins on Monday, at the Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University Teaching Hospital, Bauchi, during a free medical outreach sponsored by Speaker of the House of Representatives, Yakubu Dogara.

The team of seven surgeons, doctors and other medical personnel, was led by one Dr. Kigbu, conducted the two-hour operation. According to reports, the male died but the female is responding well to treatment. The family of the twins were not reached to find out their feelings afterwards. We wonder if this made them happy, to have a separated but now alone child, or they would have preferred their conjoined kids, both alive.? God bless and console them.

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Kano first female accountant-general resigns over “undue interference”

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According to Instablog, The accountant general of Kano State Aisha Bello, on Thursday tendered her resignation to the Kano State governor, Abdullahi Ganduje, amid controversy of interference in her duties by some powerful forces.

The embattled Accountant-General had once tendered her resignation to the governor last year, citing insubordination by the sub-treasurer and inability to discharge her responsibilities without interference, but Mr Ganduje allegedly rejected her resignation.

Mrs Bello, who served as commissioner for Planning and Budget before her appointment as accountant general, was recently investigated by the Kano State Public Complaint and Anti-Corruption Commission for alleged arbitrary release of fund without the governor’s approval.

Sources said the panel which probed her cleared all the allegations levelled against Bello.

How is that the best way to handle your problems? This is the problem with our generation today. We don’t fix issues, we just move to avoid it. Leading to excessive divorces in our society. People quitting, at the slightest opportunity they get. Please Madam, stand your ground, and handle that issue. And thank you to the man who has refused to accept her resignation letter. That is a good move, and a way to handle such issues.

Source: Instablog

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YOBE SCHOOL ABDUCTION: 15 year Old student narrates her dramatic escape from Boko haram.

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A 15-year-old student of the said  Government Girls Secondary School in Dapchi, Yobe State, where the said abduction by the Boko haram sect took place, has revealed how she narrowly escaped being abducted by the Boko Haram terrorists that stormed their school on Monday.

In a chat with TheNation, Amina Mallam Usman said: “When Boko Haram came to our school, we thought they were soldiers because they dressed like soldiers. We ran, and then one of them called us. One of them asked me to come to the car. .

I got close to the car, and then one of them started laughing at me. I moved closer to them, thinking they were soldiers. “I soon realized that they were not soldiers. As I made to run away, one of them tried to grab me. I dodged him but he got my hijab. .
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I quickly removed my hijab and left him with it and ran away. I thought I was dead. They entered our hostel again, but some of us ran into the bush. I ran up to five kilometres and hid in one Fulani settlement called Miligia.”

Asked how many students she saw in the invaders’ vehicles, Amina said: “There were many students in the vehicles.. They were up to 50 that were in the vehicles.” .

She said she felt like the angels should take her soul the moment she realized the men were Boko Haram terrorists. She is not psychologically prepared to return to the Dapchi school.

Yet again, the fact that rubbish repeat itself in this Country, says a lot about the corrupt lawmakers we have .

Source: Instablog

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Scary: Over Ten Airport security tackle black Passenger to the ground in Germany.

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How strong is a offender than this number of security personnel have to come down on them? A human being is treated this way for what? Being black? Or being an incredible hulk? Well this happened today in Germany, a man who was said to resist arrest, gets a Hugh number of security personnel tackling him to the ground, even as he gave out distress calls.

Passengers of the Airport who brought out their phones to record it, were cautioned and some forced by the security guys, to delete the videos. Well here it is. The treatment the blacks get, is always different from the ones the whites get. What could have been the offence of this person? This is just dangerous to see.

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Police Uncovers yet another new trick robbers now use in stealing money, here in Lagos.

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The act of phone snatching is not as innocent as it use to be. We use to know they snatched these phones from their victims to resell and make money, but that is not so anymore.

From this video, they are obviously linked to different criminal groups with different well known responsibilities, all with the sole aim of stealing.

These days, they have the sim cards targeted. They hack it, using an App, to gain access to your bank details or just number, and then withdraw the money.

Watch the video to see how organised this group of thrives are:

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Disgraceful: The List of the 105 school girls abducted in Yobe State surfaces.

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The unsure incident of missing schools, that many including the state Government, have tagged suspicious following the circumstances surrounding the situation. The list of  more than 100 girls who were missing, after a group of Boko Haram sect attack the school in Dapchi, Yobe State. With uncertainty surrounding the incident, parents of the school girls, have come out with the compiled list of missing girls.

Parents in Dapchi  Yobe State, said they had set up a support group after Monday’s raid, which has revived memories of the 2014 abduction of more than 200 girls in Chibok. .

“Our first step was to compile a comprehensive list of all the missing girls. So far, we have compiled the names of 105,” said Bashir Manzo, the chairman of the newly created group. .

Heavily armed jihadists stormed the boarding school in the remote town, forcing terrified students to flee into the surrounding bush. But with many girls failing to return home, fears are growing that dozens of the girls have been kidnapped.

Shame on the Government…

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An Only Child suspiciously dies during her final School Clearance in Oko polytechnic.

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The only child of a home named Oby Stella Ugwuanyi, a 28 year old fresh graduate of the Federal Polytechnic Boko Anambra State, is said to have died after she collapsed while undergoing her compulsory school clearance in the school premises on Monday the 19th of February 2018.  The young woman is said to have died in such a suspicious manner.

But as Nigerians, her family has accepted it as ‘God’s plan’, and have taken it just like that. Without any investigation or autopsy, she was buried on Friday February 23rd 2018 in her home town in Enugu State.

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