#domesticviolence

from @ucheogbodo  – Oftentimes ABUSE In Marriages Are Over Emphasized by Concerned People who feel the need to Create or Recreate Events to Show The People In Abusive Relationships that Enough is Enough ! It is Time to Pack Up and GO! .
But Most People Remain Adamant all in the Name of Stupid undue Sentiments, they are full of excuses on Why they shouldn’t give Up on Abusive Partners 🥺. To Some People It Is ” Oh ! I love him so much , let me give him one more chance, he will Change” .
To some others, it is “My Children are Still too Young” I cant leave becos of my Kids! 😢🥵. This is the Excuse that Annoy the Hell out of Me! You wont leave becos of your Children, you will stay and receive Terrible Maltreatment, Punches etc all in the name of your Children. But If you eventually Die. Those Children will learn to live without you.🤷🏻‍♀️.
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PLS WAKE UP AND TAKE A WALK FROM ABUSIVE TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS. THE WORLD AND EVERYONE WILL ADJUST FINALLY 🙏🏼.

ANTICIPATE our new Movie “MALICE” you will love it . #shootinprogress

This sj just a crazy revelation. People are always showing off their relationship and you just wonder what really goes down behind closed doors. A yet again revelation is coming out as Bose Oladimeji from the yoruba speaking side of Nollywood has revealed that she is about to leave her husband reasons being that he abuses her sexually and physically. According to her, he rapes and beats her up when he comes home drunk.

During a recent interview with Vanguardngr, she revealed that after two years, she has decided to leave her husband who she claims beats and rapes her regularly. She said the brutal violence and domestic abuse has become life-threatening and she has had enough.

“Yes I’m ready to go, in fact, I’m not with him right now. I just have to run for my life, my life is very precious to me. I can’t just allow someone to kill me like that and I want to address some ladies out there that they should not love a guy because of what he gives them. .

They should be sure the love is genuine and not be fooled by money and comfort. I’m leaving right now, I need to run away for my life. I need to save myself. My life will be in danger if I continue to stay with him, so I’m leaving right now,” she said. .

Recounting her experience, she said; “Whenever he’s drunk he’s out of his senses and starts misbehaving, beating me. He acts very crazy. .

Any weapon he sees around he uses it on me but when he is sober he starts to regret whatever he has done. What I’m saying is that in the process of beating me what if I collapse and die or get injured, what will people say?”

So she was ready to conitune with this until it became life threatening? That’s just scary to believe. God have mercy in his children. After two years she is finding out that he is a perpetual drunk and sex offender. They say a man will definitely show signs of his real self even before marriage. Does it mean that he didn’t do all of these things before marriage? 😒😕

Can you belive someone married this beautiful actress, famous in Nigeria, and still beat the hell out of her for a whole five years? Someone men have a very serious problem that their ancestors have ruled out as a problem, because they did it and it was normal to them. How normal is it for a beat to beat up a person he married? Could it be from disagreement, or from simple need to establish the head of house thing?

Because if you have a lot going on for you as you hustle hard in life, then there won’t be a time for all these mess. Beating up a women is normal for a frustrated man who has no life ambition and no future plans. If you are a wack ass and you have failed yourself in life, you take it up with a woman who considered you worthy of marriage and you beat her up? A lot goes on in this life, and we can only pray that the good lord has mercy on us and divert us from such horror of life.

How do you even recover from this when all you wanted to do in a marriage  was love, support, and raise a family with a man you thought was worth it, and all he wanted to do was beat you at the slightest provocation. Who can endure that?. She has revealed that her marriage ended because she didn’t want to be killed by domestic violence so she packed up and left. Now in another marriage, and years later, the actress is revealing in details what had transpired up until the exit of her first marriage.

Opinions from Media, church, friends, family and neighbours cannot be a reason to remain in an abusive marriage period.

A Kenyan court on Friday sentenced two rugby players to 15 years in prison for the gang rape of a female singer at a birthday party last year.

The international rugby sevens players Frank Wanyama, 24, and Alex Olaba, 23, were earlier this month found guilty of the rape in a case which highlighted what some activists refer to as a tradition of “rape culture” in rugby.

Milimani High Court Martha Mutuku handed down the sentences of 15 years imprisonment saying “a deterrent sentence is necessary.” The trial was held in-camera, so details of the evidence provided were not made public.

The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a woman for allegedly flogging and locking a 10-year-old orphan in a kennel.

According to the video from which we learnt that the incident happened in the Surulere area of Lagos state, when a video making round showed where a woman was  recklessly flogging a young boy who in turn was crying and begging the livid lady to let go.

There had been outrage on the social media after that video went viral as individuals and organizations started demanding the arrest of this said woman. A week later, another news making round reveals that she has been arrest and charged to court.

@opetodolapo As promised by the police, the suspect accused of assaulting and tossing a young orphan into a dog cage has been charged to court on Friday…..the magistrate refused her bail application and she was consequently remanded in prison!
Honestly this is the positivity that community policing can achieve….Thanks to all volunteers that gave vital information on this case and Kudos to the Domestic and Sexual violence response team of Lagos state police command for a job well done…This is what I mean when I say security is everyone’s business!

Reposted from @uchejombo – Sometimes we disconnect from current issues because we feel powerless to truly help but recent social media events have made it clear to us how powerful our collective voices are.
this case has dragged far too long (2016)
IDRIS EBILOMA deserves capital punishment
a little girl need our help in making sure her rapist gets that.

Tomorrow is the final court day till judgement…. let’s make sure they know we are ALL watching and waiting for
#justiceforkhole – #obyorijiblog

Reposted from @uchejombo – Another picture of child rapist IDRIS EBILOMA who raped a then 4years old Khole, he’s been in kuje prison. This Friday he may be released and that’s a big NO.
Friday 5th July at The APO high court,
9am!
We say #justiceforkhole
The goal is to keep him in jail
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….. justice isn’t served by merely “speaking out”
Our justice system needs to be strengthened.
( #justiceforkhole and ALL pending rape cases)
If you want to belittle the trauma caused by rape or have some degrading thing to say about a victim’s story not adding up for you please go to your page to do that, its sickening you think
That one story got more attention means the other is not as important.
Rape is just a sensitive issue.
we have a long way to go fighting rape culture in Nigeria
however…..
social media is free / open platform.
you can’t tell anybody what they choose to do with their page or voice
If someone choose to be outraged over one issue more than another, it’s his or her right , platform and choice. “Oh why fight for this and not that 🤦🏾‍♀️” ( people who say this don’t care about any form of injustice)
They only care to point fingers and ridicule the efforts of others while they themselves do nothing.

#Busoladakolo has opened the floor for girls/boys/women and Men scared Of stigmatisation to speak up with assurance of support …may be NOW we can collectively seek more convictions with serious sentence.
in this case help keep IDRIS EBILOMA in jail. – #obyorijiblog

In the rape season, A certain rapist who was said to have raped a little girl from when she was 4 years old, was tried and prisoned.

However, the said rapist is rumoured to be in preparation for his release, as announced by Tony Dike on her instagram page. Still in the rapist disgrace season, her fellow colleagues have lend their voices to the former actress, in  a case so sensitive and unbelievably real. Read them all below with very unconcealed photos.

from @tontolet – IDRIS EBILOMA RAPED KHOLE WHEN SHE WAS 4YEARS OLD,He has been in kuje prison but this Friday he WILL be released and that’s a BIG NOOOOOOOOO.. We want LIFE IN PRISONMENT, I will personally be in court with her Aunty @halima_dream on friday to demand… #JUSTICEFORKHOLE… ●
SWIPE to see evidence and hurts of khole
#justiceforkhole #WEWANTLIFE #ABOUTTOBERELEASED #NOTORAPE
PS- We will be at THE APO HIGH COURT on Friday pls come out so we seal that evil doer to what he deserves 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@naptipnigeria @t_d_foundation @aishambuhari @muhammadubuhari @profosinbajo @unwomen @unwomen_miami @unwomenaust @unwomenuk @unicef @nigeriapoliceforce @opetodolapo – #obyorijiblog

from @uchennannanna – Repost @uchejombo On the 31st of August 2016 , IDRIS EBILOMA 28 raped Miss KHLOE who was 4 years and 3 months at that time , he was the cook in their home in asokoro abuja . There was vaginal and anal penetration of that little girl . The victims mother reported to the police and she was compelled to drop charges against the boy which she refused and said she wants justice for her daughter .
Khloe’s mother has had a lot of challenges prosecuting the rapist from the police prosecutor Mr John .I. Who refused to tender all the evidences in court, the video of the little girls ordeal and other evidence and others . The mother has been following up the matter and has been frustrated to How The Nigeria police FCT command has handled the matter. All thanks to the Current CP who cautioned the OC Legal to prosecute the matter without a biased mind a few weeks ago.
The Human Right Commission is aware of this case and has refused to step in even after the victims mother wrote a petition to the commission and was told by a staff of the commission never to come back again .
This matter has lingered and the Rapist feels his above the law because he has the backing of influential Nigerians who has intimidated the victims mother . On the 6/12/2016 she fought the police officers sent from IG monitoring Team (force Headquaters) who came to rescue the Rapist in court all thanks to Hon. JUSTICE A.O. OTALUKA who intervened and stood firm since the matter came before her court ( CHARGE NO: FCT/HC/CR/32/16)
This is one of the many rape cases in the FCT especially that of minors .
All the mother of Khloe wants is justice for her daughter who deserves Justice , an innocent girl who should be protected by her blood but was sent away because her mother stood on the path of truth .
Khloe’s childhood has been stolen by this man, this Friday 5th july(Apo high court 9am)
he may walk away a free man and that is a big NO.
let the world know about this evil man. PLEASE IF YOU ARE IN ABUJA ON FRIDAY 5Th JULY 2019 JOIN THE FAMILY IN APO HIGH COURT 9am.
#JusticeForBabyKhole
#SayNoToRape
#💔💔💔😭😭 – #obyorijiblog

from @uchejombo – On the 31st of August 2016 , IDRIS EBILOMA 28 raped Miss KHLOE who was 4 years and 3 months at that time , he was the cook in their home in asokoro abuja . There was vaginal and anal penetration of that little girl . The victims mother reported to the police and she was compelled to drop charges against the boy which she refused and said she wants justice for her daughter .
Khloe’s mother has had a lot of challenges prosecuting the rapist from the police prosecutor Mr John .I. Who refused to tender all the evidences in court, the video of the little girls ordeal and other evidence and others . The mother has been following up the matter and has been frustrated to How The Nigeria police FCT command has handled the matter. All thanks to the Current CP who cautioned the OC Legal to prosecute the matter without a biased mind a few weeks ago.
The Human Right Commission is aware of this case and has refused to step in even after the victims mother wrote a petition to the commission and was told by a staff of the commission never to come back again .
This matter has lingered and the Rapist feels his above the law because he has the backing of influential Nigerians who has intimidated the victims mother . On the 6/12/2016 she fought the police officers sent from IG monitoring Team (force Headquaters) who came to rescue the Rapist in court all thanks to Hon. JUSTICE A.O. OTALUKA who intervened and stood firm since the matter came before her court ( CHARGE NO: FCT/HC/CR/32/16)
This is one of the many rape cases in the FCT especially that of minors .
All the mother of Khloe wants is justice for her daughter who deserves Justice , an innocent girl who should be protected by her blood but was sent away because her mother stood on the path of truth .
Khloe’s childhood has been stolen by this man, this Friday 5th july(Apo high court 9am)
he may walk away a free man and that is a big NO.
let the world know about this evil man. – #obyorijiblog

from @dabotalawson – SWINE!!! #Repost @tontolet with @get_repost
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IDRIS EBILOMA RAPED KHOLE WHEN SHE WAS 4YEARS OLD,He has been in kuje prison but this Friday he WILL be released and that’s a BIG NOOOOOOOOO.. We want LIFE IN PRISONMENT, I will personally be in court with her Aunty @halima_dream on friday to demand… #JUSTICEFORKHOLE… ●
SWIPE to see evidence and hurts of khole
#justiceforkhole #WEWANTLIFE #ABOUTTOBERELEASED #NOTORAPE
PS- We will be at THE APO HIGH COURT on Friday pls come out so we seal that evil doer to what he deserves 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@naptipnigeria @aishambuhari @muhammadubuhari @profosinbajo @unwomen @unwomen_miami @unwomenaust @unwomenuk @unicef @nigeriapoliceforce @opetodolapo @segalink @stelladimokokorkus @theshaderoom @instablog9ja @olorisupergal @amazonmercy @estherijewere – #obyorijiblog

On Friday, the Kansas City Chiefs announced that their wide receiver, Tyreek Hill has been banned indefinitely from all team activities in the aftermath of disturbing audio that has surfaced of the 3-time Pro Bowler allegedly threatening his fiancée.

In the audio, the couple discussed allegations of Hill abusing their 3-year-old son in which he is being accused of breaking his arm. In the alleged audio of the conversation, Hill’s fiancee, Crystal Espinal  says, “A 3-year-old is not going to lie about what happened to his arm.

He is terrified of you.” responds, “You need to be terrified of me, too, dumb b—-.” See the full story on #theJasmineBRAND.com

A man identified as Kolawole Taiwo has told his mother-in-law to be happy that he didn’t beat her daughter to death in Lagos.

It was gathered that Mr. Taiwo went violent during a domestic issue at their Abaranje, Ikotun, and beat his wife to a pulp before calling his in-law on the phone to update her.

He then went ahead to seize his wife’s phones, money and restrained her from leaving their apartment. However, she eventually escaped through the help of their neighbors. The suspect has since gone into hiding. – #obyorijiblog #regrann

My Opinion

The fact that the guy had the heart to say this, means that he is not in anyway afraid and respectful to this in laws of his. Well this is where the law comes in. Wife beaters have a certain jail term or punishment right?

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A student of the Gateway Polytechnic, Sapade, Ogun State, has been left brutalised by the gang members of a lady who accused her of snatching her boyfriend.

According to reports, Tobi (pictured top left) mobilised her friends from Shomolu, Lagos, to Ogun State, to attack Ayoka (pictured bottom right), leaving her with serious bruises. – #obyorijiblog

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R Kelly has finally broken his silence for the first time since his child sex abuse allegations. .

Speaking to Gayle King on CBS This Morning, the R&B singer said it would be stupid to think he would have girls chained up after all he has gone through.

He said people are judging him based on his past and that’s sad, adding that he is fighting for his life, before busting into tears. 📹: CBS – #obyorijiblog

Reposted from @brandontjackson – This is not funny at all. Look how they do our brothers. I’m not taking any sides. I’m showing brothers how they need to really stay focused and watch and pray because when “THEY” do stuff like this it’s a statement. HOW long will you keep this up? We have to come back to the laws of YAH. It’s time. Where are my men of Judah that will stand up and repent?!!! 🦁🦁🦁 The war is on us & nobody else, that’s it. Not women or Gays. The war is always on us no matter how “THEY” sugar coat it. It’s all to take down the Israelite man. REPENT or this will happen to you. While we’re at it, we need “Justice” for Harvey Weinstein what about that?! #kingdomovereverything – #obyorijiblog

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R. Kelly Indicted On Aggravated Sexual Abuse Charges With Minors Between Ages 13 And 16, Judge Issues No-Bail Warrant
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#RKelly has reportedly been indicted on charges of sexual misconduct with underage girls between the ages of 13 and 16.
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A Cook County judge has issued a no-bail warrant for the arrest of Robert Sylvester Kelly, well known for his stage name “R. Kelly,” the Chicago Sun-Times reports. The charges that were passed through a grand jury span from 1998 to 2010, the girls involved in the case were between the ages of 13 and 16, prosecutors allege.
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This will be the beginning of Kelly’s second battle against the justice system for allegations that he has been abusing, raping and sexually assaulting underage and adult women for more than a decade. These new movements were seemingly sparked after the release of Lifetime’s documentary “Surviving R. Kelly,” and the recent #MuteRKelly movement.
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Earlier this month, a grand jury came together to look over the new allegations against the singer-songwriter, a source close to the case says. A videotape of Kelly having sex with an underage girl was turned over to the State’s Attorney’s Office by attorney Michael Avenatti. In the explicit and clear ….…to read the rest log on to BallerAlert.com (clickable link on profile) – #obyorijiblog – #regrann

Via: Balleralert

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A 19-year-old girl identified as Mary Adeniyi, has been arrested for stabbing her husband to death in Lagos.

The nursing mother committed the offence on Friday afternoon, during a scuffle with her husband, Solomon Nduka, 30, over her alleged infidelity at their Shagamu Road, Ikorodu residence.

The deceased, it was gathered, usually accused the suspect of cheating on him which led to a fight. Adeniyi, said to have a 4-month-old baby, allegedly stabbed Solomon in the neck. – #obyoriji

Via: instablog

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An elderly perverted man was  apprehended red handed defiling an underage girl  on Thursday.

The girl who was said to be a twin, got her identify hidden, due to her age, as the man in question went right into pleading with the witnesses who apprehended him.

The incident happened at Sangotedo, Lagos. The man was subsequently paraded around the area before being handed over to the police after his pleas fell on deaf ears.

He is said to be in custody and three young girl’s family taken the matter up.

Via: Instablog

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An arrest was made on Wednesday, Feb, 6 2019 of a 47-year-old housewife named Joy Egeonu.

According  to Instablog,  she was arrested for  single handedly beating an 11-year-old  boy to death in Ogun State, over a false allegation that he stole the sum of N6,500.

According to eyewitness, the young boy was said to be the  nephew of the accused’s husband.

Although it was later discovered that the missing money was taken by her husband, the suspect was arrested following a report by the deceased’s mother, Ijeoma Egeonu, at the Agbado Divisional headquarters.

Ijeoma stated further that the incident happened on the 3rd of February 2019 and that Joy took the corpse of the boy, Chibuike, to Ifo, where she hurriedly buried him.

On interrogation, the suspect claimed to have suspected the boy as the person who stole her money, which prompted her to flog him to coma. .

She further revealed that Chibuike gave up the ghost while she was taking him to the hospital and that it was later discovered that the missing money was taken by her husband and not the deceased as suspected.

                 My Opinion 

So how much unpleasantness does one  story have to contain to make it the most inappropriate thing to hear?

Imagine beating up an 11 year old to coma, he dies, and then you hurriedly bury him, only to find out that your husband was the thief.

Then you have been arrested and about to go to jail. So much disgust in a situation that a little reconsideration at the very beginning  of that besting,would have saved. This is such  a heartbreaking story.  I hope he rest in peaces. But How long strong can this woman be, to actually flog  a pre teen to coma.

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