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I only raped one and fingered the other – Teacher arrested for defiling 2 students

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A 33-year-old private school teacher, Akinsoku Love Olomi, has been arrested for defiling two pupils aged 6 and 7, after luring them with biscuits in Ogun State.

The mother of one of the girls, Jenifer Mustapha, said the suspect, who resides at Baba Esther area in Iyesi-Ota, took advantage of the innocent kids.

She explained that her daughter told her that the man saw she and her friend playing within the premises of the school and called them into one of the classrooms.

Jenifer said: “the man gave money to one of children to go and buy biscuit and before the arrival of that one, he had defiled the other girl with him.

He then sent the one he had already defiled to go and buy another biscuit and he used that opportunity to defile the second one as well.”

The woman said she noticed change in her daughter’s countenance, which made her to question the girl. Upon the interogation, she revealed that it was Uncle Love that tampered with her private part. .

DSP Abimbola Oyeyemi, Police Public Relations Officer, (PPRO) Ogun State Police Command, confirmed the incident.
According to him, “Upon interrogation, Love admitted that he defiled one of the girls. The suspect claimed that he only fingered the second girl.”

Via: Instablog9ja

My Opinion 

I am becoming a bit confused with these disturbing descriptions. Could it be that the police ask these guys for the reenactment of their evil acts,that makes it acceptable for these guys to have the guts to tell them world that they did it once and did something else, or just boldly saying how many of this disturbing things they have ended up doing. Why do they describe it though? Make it stop.

 

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Coach accused of molesting 11 boys, dies 16 minutes before trial

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75-year-old Michael Carson, a former youth football coach accused of sexually abusing 11 boys, was killed in a car crash 16 minutes before his trial started on Monday in the U.K

Carson was due to stand trial for historical sexual abuse of boys aged under 16. Judge Matthew Lowe has now ruled that the case file be closed.

Via: Instablog

My Opinion 

In the dawn of revelations of sexual abuses, especially from Cosby, Weinstein, Rkelly and others, many other victims are boldly  finding their voices in speaking up against their abusers. The act has given everyone the idea that there is no abusers too big to be called out by their victims.

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Broken hearted student sets her Ex’s room ablaze for dumping her in Ondo

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A student of the Adekunle Ajasin university, Akungba-Akoko (AAUA), Ondo State, has set the room of her ex boyfriend ablaze for ending their relationship.

According to reports, the boyfriend, Dele, told Joy, on Thursday, that he was no longer interested in the relationship and he traveled shortly after.

However, angered by the abrupt end of the relationship, Joy broke the window of the room on Friday and through the opening, set the room ablaze. .

The fire allegedly destroyed everything inside the room. The case has since been reported to the police.

Via: Instablog

My Opinion 

I’m guessing he is only just realising the fact that he made the wrong choice of girlfriend. .  This breakup did not go down well.  That aunty was definitely on love before the said breakup.

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Lady Gaga breaks silence about R kelly apologises for a collabo with him back in 2013.

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@glamourmag – “What I am hearing about the allegations against R. Kelly is absolutely horrifying and indefensible.” – #LadyGaga, who broke her silence on her 2013 collab with Kelly, apologizing for the message it sends to survivors. 💔 Details at the #linkinbio. (📷: @gettyimages)

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The star has come out to apologise to the world, especially the sexual abuse victims about her collaboration with rkelly in 2013.

As a victim of sexual assault myself.  I made both the song and video at a dark time of my life. My intention was to create something extremely defiant and provocative because I was angry and still hadn’t processed the trauma that had occurred in my own life — Lady Gaga

 

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Breaking : R kelly’s brother finally reveals that they were both molested as kids.

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from @thesavoyshow – For Years now , #RKelly has hinted out that someone close to him molested him as a child. Well it looks his brother just revealed who that was. Their older sister who was 16 at the time. In a recent interview he reveals that she molested and raped both of them for a span of about 6 years. The first time it happened, the brother was 6 and the older sister was 16. He says their sister was In charge of watching them while there mother had to work. And her sister began to punish them for bizarre reasons. The punishment would be for them to stay in the house with her and not be able to play outside. The brother says she would always only punish 1 of them tho (Meaning The brothers were never all in the house at the same time) He feels she obviously did that strategically. He says he hasn’t spoken with his sister since their mother died a few years back. And he never told his mom about this because he didn’t want her to look at him as if he had done something wrong.

My Opinion

Even if he is making this revelation to save his brother from the deepest part of horror from the world, I still think this site disturbing for a child to pass through.  Many boy don’t see themselves as abused, because very early in life,their misfortune becomes a bragging rite among their peers,  so they just love it afterwards,  rather than deal with the fact that they were seriously moledted a mouse kids. Now look how an unresolved child abuse has given birth to the  disturbing news we are reading from this star. God have mercy. You own sibling?

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Florida Man Beaten Up And Arrested After Assaulting Female McDonalds Employee 

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A man received a little more with his food order than expected on New Years Day after a confrontation over a straw in a St. Petersburg, FL #McDonalds restaurant.
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#Facebook user, TJ Biandudi, posted the viral video his mother and sister recorded as they witnessed the altercation. According to St. Petersburg Police, the suspect, Daniel Willis Taylor, became upset when he did not receive a straw for his drink. Taylor apparently became so agitated that he grabbed and yanked the restaurant manager, Yasmine James, over the counter separating them.
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Unfortunately for him, he caused an issue with the wrong employee. This particular woman had “hands” and proceeded to give Taylor a beat down. In the video, Taylor is seen still holding on to James’ uniform shirt as she punches him repeatedly to get him off of her. Meanwhile, the other employees made little effort to diffuse the altercation or defend their fellow employee.
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Taylor can be heard stating, “I want her ass fired right now,” after another employee pulled him away. James replied, “No, you’re finna go to jail! You put your hands on me first!” Then as if the first beating wasn’t enough, Taylor responds back saying, “I couldn’t control you. I was just asking you a question, bitch!” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Taylor was arrested hours later and charged with two counts of simple battery. James was allegedly fired from the McDonalds location of the incident.

Via: Balleralert

My Opinion..

This is what happenshe when you assume you are stronger than everyone, because your mind tells you so. In what planet is it ok for anyone to drag someone so vigorously by the collar of their shirt because you want to ask them a question?  Now that you got beaten, punched, reported,  arrested and detained, I hope your question got an answer.

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New married chiara ferragni’s post about Domestic Violence leaves fans wondering if she is a Victim.

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@chiaraferragni – Love is the best feeling and It can really empower you and make you feel like you can do everything in the world. It can be tough at times, but NEVER accept a love that doesn’t treat you right. NEVER accept a toxic relationship, NEVER accept someone who doesn’t make you feel the best version of yourself and NEVER accept any kind of violence from the man you love. Violence is never normal, and should ALWAYS be reported. If you’ve been a victim of violence, find the courage to speak up. If you know someone that has been a victim of violence, help her to understand that It’s not ok and better things are waiting. Don’t be afraid, there will always be people willing to help you. Now it’s time to stop accepting these behaviours. Don’t be silent #ItsNotNormalThatItsNormal #NoViolenceAgainstWomen – #regrann

 

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Scorned cannibalistic man kills and eats older lover .

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A cannibal who butchered his lover, roasted and ate her brain then drank her blood and tried to summon the devil has been jailed for 19 years in Russia.Dmitry Luchin brutally killed his older lover Olga Budunova, 45, smashing a wine bottle repeatedly over her head before dismembering her body with a meat cleaver. .
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The 23-year-old ‘roasted’ her brain, ate it while ‘drinking her blood’ and tore out her insides, a court in Novgorod was told. Luchin also daubed swear words, including the word ‘whore’ on her body in blood and purple-coloured nail polish.He was found guilty of murder committed with special cruelty and will serve his sentence in a harsh regime penal colony. .
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Luchin – who had been declared mentally fit to stand trial – read a bizarre poem to the court in which he denied he was a ‘maniac, murderer, (and) cannibal’.He had carefully planned the ‘ritualistic cannibalistic murder’ after becoming obsessed with reading about serial killers on the web, alleged prosecutors during his trial. .
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The maniac admitted to police that he got sexual pleasure from the attack, although he later retracted his confession of guilt, after a crime scene reenactment in which he showed police how he killed and dismembered the woman. Budunova was killed after her ‘toy boy lover’ went to her flat in Valdai for ‘romantic’ drinks to mark International Women’s Day, a major public holiday in Russia, the court heard. .
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. ”He wanted to summon the devil,’ she said. ‘He waited for five minutes but the devil did not appear.”Next he took the meat cleaver and smashed her skull to the brain. He cut pieces out of her brain. He roasted and ate them. He liked it. He ate another piece, he said.’Then poured a glass of her blood and drank.’Dedova said: ‘Next he cut out her stomach, and chopped off her ears. One he put into her mouth, the other into the cat’s bowl.’
Luchin told police: ‘I liked the taste of her brain. I decided to give it another try.
‘Then I drained some of her blood into a glass.’
He copied the actions of a ritual murder carried out by a serial killer’ which he had read about online – #regrann

 

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South African Lady dies on her birthday after Domestic Violence from boyfriend.

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What should have been a happy day turned into a tragedy for the family of a 42-year-old South African lady identified as Manotsi Lemao, who died on Thursday, the day she was celebrating her birthday. .

She had reportedly been brutally beaten by her boyfriend, last Monday. Manotsi’s cousin, Mateboho Selokoma, said she discovered the truth after her husband went to collect some money from Manotsi, Dailysun reports

“He found the boyfriend. He told him that he and Manotsi had a fight earlier and she was sleeping,” said Mateboho. “I then went to check on her and I found her brutally beaten.

She had a blue eye and her body was swollen. She could not walk on her own. She said her boyfriend had beaten her up. I took her to the doctor. X-rays revealed that she had a broken leg.”

Mateboho asked her to spend a few days with her and her family – but she died on Thursday after eating her birthday cake. Police spokeswoman Sergeant Ikobeng Hlubi confirmed the incident.

📷: instablog9ja

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Video: Public proposal goes horribly wrong in Ikeja Shopping Mall.

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The video making rounds shows a man who went ahead to plan a public proposal when all wasn’t all right with the relationship.  The lady in question was so incredibly bold enough to  point out his faults right there, while calling  out on the on lookers to come closer and hear her own side of the story. The guy in question was trying to stop her by kneeling and begging her not to do it. But the part I don’t like, is the slap part. If the guy retaliated, things won’t be as peaceful as it was for her. She would have said no and gone away, but she literally slapped the guy till she was done with it. It is not ok. He is also a human being. If you were bruising his ego with your words,  and still see the need to slap the feeling out of his face, then you just wanted to win all round.

Was the slap that necessary? You be the judge of this. Does this count as domestic violence? Is this the reason why they now say more women commit domestic violence than men in Lagos?

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Girl on errand raped to death in Anambra.

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A  17-year-old girl has been gang-raped and killed in Ogwugwu village, Oba, in the Idemili South Local Government Area of Anambra State.

The late teen was said to have just graduated secondary school after writing her West African Senior School Certificate Examination (WAEC), but was attacked and raped by six young men while on her way to buy garri for dinner around 7pm on Wednesday night.

Acoording to punch news, the suspect was believe to have known the perpetrators who lured her to an uncompleted building where they raped her until she became weak, And in a bid to conceal their crime, they threw her down the storey building to her death. Punch revealed that her remains have been deposited in a morgue while investigation is on going.

The Divisional Police Officer in charge of Ojoto Police Division, Prince Ezejiofor, confirmed the incident, saying no arrest had been made.

The  DPO said, “They perpetrated the act about 7pm, but we are closing in on the suspects.”Reacting to the incident, the President General of Aboji Akanano Union, Oba, Dozie Nweke, described the murder as wicked. May her soul rest in peace, with the good lord granting the family the fortitude to bear the loss.

 

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Shocking: More Lagos wives beat up husbands – Commissioner for Justice clarifies

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Lagos State government yesterday raised the alarm over the increasing cases of housewives who now batter their husbands. .

The Commissioner for Justice, Mr. Adeniji Kazeem, who said this while briefing journalists on the score card of his ministry in the last one year, said no fewer than 138 of such cases were reported to the agency in charge of domestic violence. .

He said: “Ministry has noted an increase in report of domestic abuse against men. To date, the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT) has received a total number of 138 cases in this regard.”

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Afghanistan Lady’s face left damaged after being shot by husband.

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A young wife by the name of Shakila Zareen, age 23 years, has lost majority of her face, after she was shot in the face by her violent husband in Afghanistan.

Shakila Zareen had undergone multiple surgeries in a neighbouring Country India, she was initially offered the chance to live in the U.S. But due to the current regime and its laws, that are not for the good of the works citizens from that part of the world, concerning security related issues.

The young lady has instead moved to Vancouver in Canada instead.  where she plans to start a new life despite her fear of repercussions from her husband. “I’m stronger now,” she said, “so I’m not going to be silent”

Marital Problems are not peculiar to only a certain tribe, race or religion. It is a world wide issue, and when you come across a victim, always have the empathy towards them.

Photo: Radar Akbar

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Alarming: 5 Ontario Women were killed by their partners in January.

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Awareness has been raised on the riding number of Ontario women in Canada, whose Lives have been cut short by the men in their lives. According to the news “Five Ontario women have allegedly been killed by their partners, during intimacy or domestic violence in January  2018 alone .

And while that number is shocking, experts say it’s not entirely unusual. The deaths of five women named:

.Holly Hamilton,

.Elaine Bellevue,

.Baljit Thandi,

.Avtar Kaur 

 Jan Singh

This has led to many advocates speaking out on Twitter, calling for attention to be raised on gender-based violence against women. All of the deaths occurred in January, and were allegedly caused by men in these women’s lives.

Hamilton’s death resulted in her 30-year-old Ex-boyfriend being charged with second degree murder in January. Police said that the most recent case, of Singh, was a murder-suicide. They explained that the 70-year-old woman was shot dead inside her home by her husband before he took his own life.

Keetha Mercer, who is a program manager of community initiatives at the Canadian Women’s Foundation, told Global News that such incidents are all too common. “When it comes to homicide cases, these tragic deaths are another reminder that this happens all the time in this country,” Mercer said. “It’s definitely a lot in a short amount of time. But we have seen some other cases when a number of women have been killed in Ontario in a short amount of time” Via @globalnews

Source: Nikkioh.co

With the society, technological, and generational advancement of our world today,  The sad reality of life still remains that Women are surprisingly  the shock absorber for the men in their lives these days. A man has a bad day, deal, dream, he transfers the aggression to his wife. God help us all.

 

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Insecure Man beats girlfriend up over fears of her Ex having a bigger Sexual Organ.

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They say the way we all have different faces, so are our problems. The insecurity of we humans keeps raising its ugly head more, ad generations run. This is the case of a  jealous Caucasian man, named Nathan Galvin, with a history of domestic violence on women, who beat up his girlfriend out if fear that her Ex lover had a lager sexual organ.

In October last year, Nathan Galvin and his girlfriend of 10 months had gone to a school function where one of her ex was also in attendance. In his bid to quench his curiosity, an insecure Galvin tried to inquire from his girlfriend if he made her happier in bed, than the Ex, he was jealous of. Not getting the wanted answer from her, which implied that her Ex’s was larger, Galvin got upset and pressed on more, but still didn’t get his answer, He then  forcefully grabbed his girlfriend’s hair, and pulled out some of it in anger.

8 days later, Galvin made similar remarks following another visit to the school. Canterbury Crown Court heard the argument led to a 20-minute attack at the victim’s Thanet home, which left her body covered “from head to toe” in bruises.

Now, a judge has told 29-year-old Galvin “he is a danger to women” after hearing four previous lovers and his sister had fallen victim to his violent tendencies.

But even after receiving a three-year jail sentence for the nasty assaults, the smirking Galvin, of Clements Road, Ramsgate, looked across to the public gallery and made a gun gesture with his fingers to his crying victim.

Just 15 minutes later, he was hauled back before the judge and given an extra four months for contempt of court. Judge Rupert Lowe told him: “You are a man who has significant problems with women, and a danger to society.

On these occasions you lost control on reality and the assaults on this woman were prolonged and disgraceful.”

Looking am him, as a good looking fellow, it clearly explains the saying that ‘All that glitters, is not gold”.

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