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Nigerians baffled by a man who demeaned Actress Nse Ikpe Etim for not having a child at 45.

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There are such mean things being said to people on a daily basis on social media and it is just hurtful to see. Why will you take time out to project your life’s insecurities on some other person due to your lack of control on meanness. Just look at what a normal man is sending to his fellow him a being as if he is God. What kind of rubbish talk is this? This woman has been open about his medical conditions and others things that have prevented her from being a mother and yet someone felt the very need to say these things to her on her 45th birthday? You can imagine what’s kind of life this man has. He is miserable and disappointing himself at his achievements so far. This is just horrible.

 

 

 

from @nseikpeetim – Some say I am a strong woman
Some tell me I am a brave woman
Some think I should be more of a woman
Some will tell you I’m a good woman
While some think I’m not much of a woman
Or at all like any woman they ever knew
And that I could be so much more

But all I am is a woman
All I am is my woman
I am the woman I can be
The one I want to be
Not the one I should be, could be, would be
Not so much more, too much like, or nearly so – Absent Wryta 📸: @kunmi.owopetu
Creative Director: @misteradeyemi
Styled by @flostyling
Hat by @urezkulture
Jewellery by @theofficialpandora
Makeup by @houseoftuns

#BirthdayBehaviour #BigAnnouncementSoon #TheSilentTsunami #LoveAndLight #NseIkpeEtim #OctoberBaby #FortyFive #FortyFine –

from @nseikpeetim – I think growing is beautiful once you’re on a journey to self-actualization and constant self-evaluation but my birthdays have become rather normal every year. Not because I don’t get “Prezzies” or throw parties but because it’s a constant reminder of my journey; where I am and where I’m headed possibly.

I really don’t care how long, truly; I care about how well I’ve lived and the things I would have done. Everyday I’m thankful. I don’t look forward to birthdays, it’s funny that I actually forgot it was October and thought we were in November because I blurted it out. I guess I’m just thankful for every single experience and every single person that’s come into my life.

I probably don’t have enough gratitude so I’m just saying thank you. My family and friends are my backbone. I really don’t know how I feel about being 45 by the way; I don’t feel anything, really; just grateful to continue the journey.

I’ve learnt not to take life for granted, that’s my greatest lesson and because of that I live it deliberately, because it’s an amazing gift and I think for where I’m at now, I’m happy that there are people who I’ve affected by my work, and I think that’s one of my greatest joys. I’m grateful for that. That is what helps me to be truly who I am. And yes I might have little deposits of different people inside of me which is okay because I’ve been through all kinds of characters. But Nse is still a little shy inside, Nse would still hurt but Nse will love even when she’s hurt because as I cry so would I laugh because life is indeed too short, and we should maximize each moment and what it brings because we may not have many of them, and these moments all contribute to the robust experience of expressing all of ourselves and being all we can be, so that life doesn’t end in regret and what could have been.

That’s really my philosophy.

Ps. Watch this space for a big announcement this week. 😉 📸: @kunmi.owopetu
Creative Director: @misteradeyemi
Styled by @flostyling
Hat by @urezkulture
Jewellery by @theofficialpandora
Makeup by @houseoftuns

#BirthdayBehaviour #TheSilentTsunami #LoveAndLight #NseIkpeEtim #OctoberBaby #FortyFive #FortyFine

Tags : #disturbing #women #unbelievable #obyorijiblog
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