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As a human being, this is how to avoid feeling unhappy And unfulfilled.

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As human beings, we all hope to have all our life plans come together in no time, some of us act towards it, while others simply wait for it to come and hit them in the face according to what they have been taught or told. If history doesn’t fail us, we have all known that people who have succeeded over the existence of this earth, Have had to put in the hard work in order to come out successful.

Now, there must be a dream that you have always had, to become a certain person in life, to have so much money (like every others person) , to have fame and power and so on. The difference between the people who didn’t achieve their dreams till their death and those who did, is that the successful people went after their dreams.

Pin Nigeria today, there ar a lot of unhappy people, most of them are graduate who have left college but have no job waiting for them like they were promised at birth and in school.

Grafuates in Nigeria have a big problem, which is that they undermine jobs, they select job even with the fact that some of them are unqualified for it even with their degrees, they don’t have enough weight in sir head to keep up a 1 hour conversation on what ever degree they have gotten. Most times I ask my fellow Nigerian youths who have no jobs a simple question.

Me: “What have you always like to become in Life, that didn’t need any form of education ?” 

Them: ” A Doctor”

Me: “no I mean something that doesn’t really need you to attend any school before you can do it. Ok what would you have become if you didn’t have the chance to atten college?”

Them: “Me I don’t know OO”

That surprises me.  Even  though some have good answers for me, others cut short the conversation to avoid being embarrassed. The rest have done absolutely nothing towards making their dreams come alive. If you graduated colleg and no job, then retrace your steps and have a rethink and come up with ideas of what you will feel fulfilled doing. As a kid, I have always loved to write, act, and sing. After college had a rethink aw well.

You can only feel fulfilled when you do what you like, what makes you feel smart, what challenges your mind, when your fulfillment doesn’t depend on any body else. When it doesn’t come from spite and tearing down people in the same struggle to succeed.

You can only be fulfilled when you are the source of your own fulfillment. Challenge yourself, try out new things, take risks, date who you like, don’t pay attention to people’s opinions, don’t listen to the ‘NOs’ you get from people who thought would be your savior.

With God, Your Actions, determination, hard work and consistency, you will surprise yourself. Don’t say I will start tomorrow, start today. Do it today. Don’t pay attention to any body laughing  at you and deciding your future for you, because even they themselves, don’t know what their future will look like. But you can affect your future by working towards it. But no one wants to work so hard and when it is time to reap the fruit of your labour, you die or passion. So To keep yourself healthy and hearty enough to experience that future you are building for yourself, you should better sick with ObyOrijifitness to keep the body running at all times. PRAY, WATCH, and ACT.

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